When my wife died the military told me very clearly, you can never remarry or your benefits are gone. It has made my dating life considerably easier, since the US army essentially use a very old biblical standard when it comes to widowship. I agree with other poster though, women today aren't worth dating, the way i see it i can be useful to white people without having to marry or have kids. I know a lot about strategy, people manipulation, gunsmithing and random other hobbies.