they pretend they don't want children so when they try and maybe fail they are not crushed, then they are left with a sense of longing because they didn't have children that drives them crazy and makes them try to "mommy" the whole world. (referring to the women)
It's not pretend. 42, no kids, and never any desire to have any.
it is pretending, as in, pretending the biological urge to continue your genetic line doesn't exist, anyone pretending they don't have "any" desire for kids is lying to themselves.
I don't have that urge, as I could care fuck all about lineage. All is see is a lot of bills, lost sleep, and lost freedom.
I'm around others kids 5 minutes and I'm ready to just leave, I find them extremely annoying.
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