I did, my fam still hounds me over it, I decided a long time ago, in high school that it wasn't something I wanted to do.
yes, because childhood minds are so easily manipulated, that's when all my friends who decided the same said they made that decision...it's like it's a virus that people don't even know they are infected with, and think their decisions are their own.
Notice my opinion didn't change, once I started working it was reinforced. Kids are a massive, trouble and time laden burden I choose not to have.
I wouldn't be near retirement if I'd had kids just due to the costs.
lol, brainwashed people's opinions also don't change when presented with evidence to the contrary, they don't even look into it
Like I said, I feel bad for you...you don't even know what it is you want out of life because you've had that desire co-opted
We are done talking though, you clearly want to justify your own brainwashed state as valid so as to justify your "choices" until now. Best of luck to you staving off the loneliness people around your age constantly talk about who don't have kids and their friends start dying and suddenly they find themselves literally all alone.
You actually think you want that, how terrible your situation is.
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