Mine was early in my marriage. I had a tendancy to run from problems back then. I left for a month. Lived in a house boat which was cool but it was lonely. It's easier to talk it out then run but i was not smart enough to realize it. The wife actually came get me off the river we have 4 kids now. I ramble my mistake was leaving as soon as it got a little bad ( in reality it wasn't bad at all)