The marriage is over when a spouse dies. She cannot come back but you will go to her.
See part of me always wondered about the remarriage part. I understand upon death the contract is void, but then part of me wonders, if you see them again in heaven, are you not married in eternity? Or maybe my brain has become grief soup and this particular subject is too sensitive to me
I'm sorry and please accept my condolences. I know I cannot understand the extent of your loss.
Christ said in Mark 12:25 - "...they neither marry nor are given in marriage, but are like angels in heaven." But it doesn't say we will not be together in Heaven, we will have fellowship with each other.
Whatever we have in Heaven as followers of Christ, it will be better than anything we have here.
Sorry for your loss man. I hope you get through this time as best you can. I'm a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. We believe that marriage is eternal, and that marriage is an essential part of our identity and purpose. That knowledge has given me a lot of peace.
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