As a lifelong Christian, I've never seen anything against a widower remarrying. Pray and follow your heart as the Lord leads you, brother.
Logisitics just dont seem right to me honestly, maybe ill get around to it later. For now, id rather not dump that type of baggage on anyone
No problem at all. It's good to be conscientious, but temper it with the knowledge that most everyone you see is far more messed up than you'd imagine. The best choice is always the right choice and no human can tell you what that is but you.
fair enough point, i dont usually ask for help on the subject or mention it to anyone outside private boards in super vague details. Im sure most people are as messed up as i am, but i find death is the ultimate piece that makes people too uncomfortable. Id happily help out another white person if they need grief counseling, Im happy to die alone at this point
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