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I'm not one to ask for advice but I'm genuinely curious to hear what you NiggerFaggots would do.

Basically my exgf left me when she was pregnant with our son and never spoke to me until recently. By now he's 18 months old. I seen him and my ex at Xmas time and my son never knew who I was and my exgf was being a bitch to me and never even got me anything for Xmas. The point is, it didn't feel like a real family, but whenever I say this everybody tells me I'm wrong and that it's still a real family. To me it's not though and it was a depressing situation to put myself in. I had to sit around and see the family I could have had. I got to see my son who didn't even know who I was. I had to be around my ex who treated me like shit and didn't even get me an Xmas present. That's not family. I'm being told I can see my son once a week which isn't enough to be a real dad.

Basically it has come down to me realizing that I'll never be able to have a real family and therefore will never be satisfied with life and wish to kill myself as a result of this. I know for a fact that I'll never be able to have a real family and nor will my son.

I'm not one to ask for advice but I'm genuinely curious to hear what you NiggerFaggots would do. Basically my exgf left me when she was pregnant with our son and never spoke to me until recently. By now he's 18 months old. I seen him and my ex at Xmas time and my son never knew who I was and my exgf was being a bitch to me and never even got me anything for Xmas. The point is, it didn't feel like a real family, but whenever I say this everybody tells me I'm wrong and that it's still a real family. To me it's not though and it was a depressing situation to put myself in. I had to sit around and see the family I could have had. I got to see my son who didn't even know who I was. I had to be around my ex who treated me like shit and didn't even get me an Xmas present. That's not family. I'm being told I can see my son once a week which isn't enough to be a real dad. Basically it has come down to me realizing that I'll never be able to have a real family and therefore will never be satisfied with life and wish to kill myself as a result of this. I know for a fact that I'll never be able to have a real family and nor will my son.

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[–] • 2 pts

The little ones have a very short term memory, if you aren’t constantly in front of them ,especially at this age then they do indeed kind of “forget you”.but they’ll start to remember and frequency is more important than duration. So for now do the once a week, But you’re new part time job is studying the fuck out of family law in your area. Get an overnight at around 24months and keep moving forward.

[–] • 0 pt

Lol you guys don't get it either.

Being a part-time dad is failure to me. That's not a real family. I'm not trying to make the best of a shitty situation. I don't want this type of degenerate lowlife family dynamics. It's not a real family and I'll never be able to raise my son with the limited time I'm granted. This situation cannot be fixed and this is why I want to kill myself and probably will.

[–] • 1 pt

Your distraught and it’s the suicide time of year. So don’t make dumb decisions.every dad is fucking busy that’s why traditionally the broad took care of the household shit. Trust me give it some time.as long as your not a fuck up The little one needs you. Family law is way different than criminal law. Start studying

[–] • 0 pt

The issue isn't just child access. I know I can get partial custody. The issue is never having a real family. That's my issue. Me or my son won't ever have a real family. For me to be happy as a man I need a real family. That's my issue.

My options are to kill myself or to abandon my old shitty fake family and put all resources into starting a new real family.

I don't care how cold hearted I sound. I will walk away from both my son and my ex before I let the situation destroy me.