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I'm not one to ask for advice but I'm genuinely curious to hear what you NiggerFaggots would do.

Basically my exgf left me when she was pregnant with our son and never spoke to me until recently. By now he's 18 months old. I seen him and my ex at Xmas time and my son never knew who I was and my exgf was being a bitch to me and never even got me anything for Xmas. The point is, it didn't feel like a real family, but whenever I say this everybody tells me I'm wrong and that it's still a real family. To me it's not though and it was a depressing situation to put myself in. I had to sit around and see the family I could have had. I got to see my son who didn't even know who I was. I had to be around my ex who treated me like shit and didn't even get me an Xmas present. That's not family. I'm being told I can see my son once a week which isn't enough to be a real dad.

Basically it has come down to me realizing that I'll never be able to have a real family and therefore will never be satisfied with life and wish to kill myself as a result of this. I know for a fact that I'll never be able to have a real family and nor will my son.

I'm not one to ask for advice but I'm genuinely curious to hear what you NiggerFaggots would do. Basically my exgf left me when she was pregnant with our son and never spoke to me until recently. By now he's 18 months old. I seen him and my ex at Xmas time and my son never knew who I was and my exgf was being a bitch to me and never even got me anything for Xmas. The point is, it didn't feel like a real family, but whenever I say this everybody tells me I'm wrong and that it's still a real family. To me it's not though and it was a depressing situation to put myself in. I had to sit around and see the family I could have had. I got to see my son who didn't even know who I was. I had to be around my ex who treated me like shit and didn't even get me an Xmas present. That's not family. I'm being told I can see my son once a week which isn't enough to be a real dad. Basically it has come down to me realizing that I'll never be able to have a real family and therefore will never be satisfied with life and wish to kill myself as a result of this. I know for a fact that I'll never be able to have a real family and nor will my son.

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The issue isn't just child access. I know I can get partial custody. The issue is never having a real family. That's my issue. Me or my son won't ever have a real family. For me to be happy as a man I need a real family. That's my issue.

My options are to kill myself or to abandon my old shitty fake family and put all resources into starting a new real family.

I don't care how cold hearted I sound. I will walk away from both my son and my ex before I let the situation destroy me.

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Look I get it, and probably all single dads go through these thoughts. Here’s the deal most marriages dissolve after a few years anyway. (Whether or not you start a new “real fambly” this is the reality. So it destroys you now or destroys you later.. Fact of the matter is the kid is blood and the broad is replaceable the kid is your “real family”

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So if our society has become this fucked up than maybe it's best to just say fuck it and start making everybody else suffer too.

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Maybe,atleast better than necking yourself. But keep in mind your not responsible for the general fuckery of the world your just a rando that got put here.well actually I guess you beat a million other cells To get here so you’ve earned your place ,as has your son and that little guy might be the future. The world has been fucked before. You should be stoked you had a boy.

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I'm not accepting this situation. It's death or I abandon my fake family and start a real one. Those are my options.