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I'm not one to ask for advice but I'm genuinely curious to hear what you NiggerFaggots would do.

Basically my exgf left me when she was pregnant with our son and never spoke to me until recently. By now he's 18 months old. I seen him and my ex at Xmas time and my son never knew who I was and my exgf was being a bitch to me and never even got me anything for Xmas. The point is, it didn't feel like a real family, but whenever I say this everybody tells me I'm wrong and that it's still a real family. To me it's not though and it was a depressing situation to put myself in. I had to sit around and see the family I could have had. I got to see my son who didn't even know who I was. I had to be around my ex who treated me like shit and didn't even get me an Xmas present. That's not family. I'm being told I can see my son once a week which isn't enough to be a real dad.

Basically it has come down to me realizing that I'll never be able to have a real family and therefore will never be satisfied with life and wish to kill myself as a result of this. I know for a fact that I'll never be able to have a real family and nor will my son.

I'm not one to ask for advice but I'm genuinely curious to hear what you NiggerFaggots would do. Basically my exgf left me when she was pregnant with our son and never spoke to me until recently. By now he's 18 months old. I seen him and my ex at Xmas time and my son never knew who I was and my exgf was being a bitch to me and never even got me anything for Xmas. The point is, it didn't feel like a real family, but whenever I say this everybody tells me I'm wrong and that it's still a real family. To me it's not though and it was a depressing situation to put myself in. I had to sit around and see the family I could have had. I got to see my son who didn't even know who I was. I had to be around my ex who treated me like shit and didn't even get me an Xmas present. That's not family. I'm being told I can see my son once a week which isn't enough to be a real dad. Basically it has come down to me realizing that I'll never be able to have a real family and therefore will never be satisfied with life and wish to kill myself as a result of this. I know for a fact that I'll never be able to have a real family and nor will my son.

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Your distraught and it’s the suicide time of year. So don’t make dumb decisions.every dad is fucking busy that’s why traditionally the broad took care of the household shit. Trust me give it some time.as long as your not a fuck up The little one needs you. Family law is way different than criminal law. Start studying

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The issue isn't just child access. I know I can get partial custody. The issue is never having a real family. That's my issue. Me or my son won't ever have a real family. For me to be happy as a man I need a real family. That's my issue.

My options are to kill myself or to abandon my old shitty fake family and put all resources into starting a new real family.

I don't care how cold hearted I sound. I will walk away from both my son and my ex before I let the situation destroy me.

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Look I get it, and probably all single dads go through these thoughts. Here’s the deal most marriages dissolve after a few years anyway. (Whether or not you start a new “real fambly” this is the reality. So it destroys you now or destroys you later.. Fact of the matter is the kid is blood and the broad is replaceable the kid is your “real family”

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So if our society has become this fucked up than maybe it's best to just say fuck it and start making everybody else suffer too.

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I'm not accepting this situation. It's death or I abandon my fake family and start a real one. Those are my options.