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I'm not one to ask for advice but I'm genuinely curious to hear what you NiggerFaggots would do.

Basically my exgf left me when she was pregnant with our son and never spoke to me until recently. By now he's 18 months old. I seen him and my ex at Xmas time and my son never knew who I was and my exgf was being a bitch to me and never even got me anything for Xmas. The point is, it didn't feel like a real family, but whenever I say this everybody tells me I'm wrong and that it's still a real family. To me it's not though and it was a depressing situation to put myself in. I had to sit around and see the family I could have had. I got to see my son who didn't even know who I was. I had to be around my ex who treated me like shit and didn't even get me an Xmas present. That's not family. I'm being told I can see my son once a week which isn't enough to be a real dad.

Basically it has come down to me realizing that I'll never be able to have a real family and therefore will never be satisfied with life and wish to kill myself as a result of this. I know for a fact that I'll never be able to have a real family and nor will my son.

I'm not one to ask for advice but I'm genuinely curious to hear what you NiggerFaggots would do. Basically my exgf left me when she was pregnant with our son and never spoke to me until recently. By now he's 18 months old. I seen him and my ex at Xmas time and my son never knew who I was and my exgf was being a bitch to me and never even got me anything for Xmas. The point is, it didn't feel like a real family, but whenever I say this everybody tells me I'm wrong and that it's still a real family. To me it's not though and it was a depressing situation to put myself in. I had to sit around and see the family I could have had. I got to see my son who didn't even know who I was. I had to be around my ex who treated me like shit and didn't even get me an Xmas present. That's not family. I'm being told I can see my son once a week which isn't enough to be a real dad. Basically it has come down to me realizing that I'll never be able to have a real family and therefore will never be satisfied with life and wish to kill myself as a result of this. I know for a fact that I'll never be able to have a real family and nor will my son.

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Honestly, I think the best solution is to simply divert all my time, energy and money into starting a new family which will inevitably help me forget about the fake shitty old family I had. That's all ai can do.

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I was tempted to suggest that but it’s morally incorrect.

You made the decision to risk having, and subsequently having a kid. You don’t just get to bail out because you can’t wrangle your bitch of an exgf.

You can do what makes you feel better now, but considering the fact you said you want to be there for the kid and make it right....you will never live that down.

And besides, what makes you think you’re not going to run into any similar problems with a different girl?

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Self preservation gives no fucks about morality. That's all I can say. It's better to bail than to commit suicide. The kid doesn't even know I'm his dad and so there's no loss to him. She can find another guy to he his dad. If starting a new family doesn't work out I'll just blow my head off lol.

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I understand. Then lay off. If you ever feel like trying to reconnect, you’ll have that option. Get well man.

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Or I plant fentanyl or a gun in her car one day and call the cops on her and have her locked up and thus get custody.