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I'm not one to ask for advice but I'm genuinely curious to hear what you NiggerFaggots would do.

Basically my exgf left me when she was pregnant with our son and never spoke to me until recently. By now he's 18 months old. I seen him and my ex at Xmas time and my son never knew who I was and my exgf was being a bitch to me and never even got me anything for Xmas. The point is, it didn't feel like a real family, but whenever I say this everybody tells me I'm wrong and that it's still a real family. To me it's not though and it was a depressing situation to put myself in. I had to sit around and see the family I could have had. I got to see my son who didn't even know who I was. I had to be around my ex who treated me like shit and didn't even get me an Xmas present. That's not family. I'm being told I can see my son once a week which isn't enough to be a real dad.

Basically it has come down to me realizing that I'll never be able to have a real family and therefore will never be satisfied with life and wish to kill myself as a result of this. I know for a fact that I'll never be able to have a real family and nor will my son.

I'm not one to ask for advice but I'm genuinely curious to hear what you NiggerFaggots would do. Basically my exgf left me when she was pregnant with our son and never spoke to me until recently. By now he's 18 months old. I seen him and my ex at Xmas time and my son never knew who I was and my exgf was being a bitch to me and never even got me anything for Xmas. The point is, it didn't feel like a real family, but whenever I say this everybody tells me I'm wrong and that it's still a real family. To me it's not though and it was a depressing situation to put myself in. I had to sit around and see the family I could have had. I got to see my son who didn't even know who I was. I had to be around my ex who treated me like shit and didn't even get me an Xmas present. That's not family. I'm being told I can see my son once a week which isn't enough to be a real dad. Basically it has come down to me realizing that I'll never be able to have a real family and therefore will never be satisfied with life and wish to kill myself as a result of this. I know for a fact that I'll never be able to have a real family and nor will my son.

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[–] • 4 pts (edited )

This is a low effort shitpost and its pretty obvious.

A sob story, followed by him talking about how his ex didn't get him a fucking christmas present (lol), not once, but twice. Begs for sympathy, goes on how about his son "doesnt know who he is", hes 18 months old bro, of course he doesn't know who the fuck you are. If you'd been gone a few months, he wouldn't recognize you. Goes on to talk about suicide.

This is from a brand new account, and is some faggot glownigger e-begging for upvotes to game the system and thats all this is.

[–] • 1 pt

Soo.... your saying if... OP were to blow his brains out, Nothing of value would have been lost. What type of Garbage can't separate from Christmas gifts to create a relationship with his own blood? OP, should have his balls removed as he apparently will never be a Man or Responsible enough to be a Father.
I wouldn't give this wing piece of shit a Gold fish yet God gave you a Baby. WTF....

[–] • 4 pts

Get her pregnant again

[–] • 4 pts

You are the father, nothing can change that. You should offer what you can to your son and accept the situation for now.
Mothers hold sway over boys until around age 10. Let him learn from her what he can, but be there whenever you can to set the groundwork for later.

[–] [deleted] • 4 pts

She's bad news, stay single or find someone new. But as for your son, there is so much you have to offer him, even for just a day a week. Stay strong.

[–] • 2 pts

The little ones have a very short term memory, if you aren’t constantly in front of them ,especially at this age then they do indeed kind of “forget you”.but they’ll start to remember and frequency is more important than duration. So for now do the once a week, But you’re new part time job is studying the fuck out of family law in your area. Get an overnight at around 24months and keep moving forward.

[–] • 0 pt

Lol you guys don't get it either.

Being a part-time dad is failure to me. That's not a real family. I'm not trying to make the best of a shitty situation. I don't want this type of degenerate lowlife family dynamics. It's not a real family and I'll never be able to raise my son with the limited time I'm granted. This situation cannot be fixed and this is why I want to kill myself and probably will.

[–] • 1 pt

Your distraught and it’s the suicide time of year. So don’t make dumb decisions.every dad is fucking busy that’s why traditionally the broad took care of the household shit. Trust me give it some time.as long as your not a fuck up The little one needs you. Family law is way different than criminal law. Start studying

[–] • 0 pt

The issue isn't just child access. I know I can get partial custody. The issue is never having a real family. That's my issue. Me or my son won't ever have a real family. For me to be happy as a man I need a real family. That's my issue.

My options are to kill myself or to abandon my old shitty fake family and put all resources into starting a new real family.

I don't care how cold hearted I sound. I will walk away from both my son and my ex before I let the situation destroy me.

[–] • 2 pts

Whining about the lack of presents is a bad look.

That being said, you need to weigh the costs of getting your parental rights back vs the swallowing of pride required to make things right with the ex.

[–] • 1 pt

That emphasis made this entire thing feel like a troll.

[–] • 0 pt

Lack of presents is an indicator of unhealthy family dynamics. I mention it to reinforce why I believe it's not a real family. It wasn't to invoke sympathy.

[–] • 2 pts

First of all, don’t kill yourself please.

There are details that need to be known in order to give proper advice.

Things such as, why did you guys break up? Do you still like her? Is she single?

If you want to see your son more, you need to communicate that to her, and really explain why it’s important for you to be there more for you son. If you want to get back together or feel you should for the kid, you need to convey that properly.

None of that is going to happen until you become man enough to make it happen. And no offense at all, it doesn’t appear you’re in an “Alpha” position right now.

When you become the best you can be, you will be able to do anything you want. Be there as much as you can for your kid. But you need to be there more for yourself right now.

Focus on you first. The kid is 18 months old, and no one even remembers that time of their life. If you spend the time now to focus on self improvement, you’ll be able to be the best dad in the world in his eyes someday.

BROTHER YOU GOT THIS.

[–] • 0 pt

Honestly, I think the best solution is to simply divert all my time, energy and money into starting a new family which will inevitably help me forget about the fake shitty old family I had. That's all ai can do.

[–] • 1 pt

I was tempted to suggest that but it’s morally incorrect.

You made the decision to risk having, and subsequently having a kid. You don’t just get to bail out because you can’t wrangle your bitch of an exgf.

You can do what makes you feel better now, but considering the fact you said you want to be there for the kid and make it right....you will never live that down.

And besides, what makes you think you’re not going to run into any similar problems with a different girl?

[–] • 0 pt

Self preservation gives no fucks about morality. That's all I can say. It's better to bail than to commit suicide. The kid doesn't even know I'm his dad and so there's no loss to him. She can find another guy to he his dad. If starting a new family doesn't work out I'll just blow my head off lol.

[–] • 0 pt

Or I plant fentanyl or a gun in her car one day and call the cops on her and have her locked up and thus get custody.

[–] • 1 pt

Life rarely is perfect. I think you're trolling. Regardless, a good number of faggots who frequent these kinds of forums do not come from traditional family situations, yet they're more of a boone to society than the babies who turned into Antifa soyboys or trust the system dipshits.

[–] • 1 pt

You're a faggot, Harry.

[–] • 1 pt

Get a new family:-)

[–] • 1 pt

It's that or suicide.

I really can't justify putting time and energy as well as money into a broken shitty fake family when I could be putting those resources into building a new better family.

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