Admittedly, I'm aloof so perhaps I don't see as much as others however, I don't think that down voting is so much stigmatized here as it is personalized. Casting a down vote here is akin throwing a punch in person. If I hit that button I should first be able to articulate a counter argument or at a minimum point to a flaw in your reasoning. Short of that I had better suck up my resentment for your having the audacity to post something I disagree with or at least admit to myself that I'm so petty that I can't allow you to respond.
Personalized is a good way to look at it. Usually I just ignore rather than downvote. There is a user or two that I feel deserve downvotes on a regular basis, not because I disagree, but one is prone to offtopic rants, and the other is a larping idiot. In both cases. I'm not sure replying and downvoting works either. I could say "stay on topic", or "quit larping, faggot", idk.
I choose to look the other way instead of downvoting. Maybe that is good, the system is working as intended? I'm not so sure.
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