You're right here, with just doing this in itself kicks off a type of cultural marxism between the sexes. This is actually the point of it all though.

Imagine keeping a child isolated from other children and steep them in contract law until they are past the developmental age (12 or so). Then, put them into the sea of people and you'd find they would never be capable of having a social relationship because they'd always measure merit and fairness like a lawyer, hence computationally.

This is like people who lack a sense of others become really good at emulating empathy, but are constantly running a competition on them. Essentially, psychopaths and narcissists do this and regular folks who have a natural sense are often subverted by them until made aware of the issue. Actually, watching this problem accumulate over a few hundred years explains most of what is going on in the world today.

There is competition though. Clarity would help was my thought process