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Me too. I find that women have a hard time being intelligent around me. It's almost like I intimidate them. It's not just that I'm good looking, but that I'm intelligent too. They also have an extreme tendency to misinterpret everything I say as "flirtatious". The fact that they want to think I want them, and be able to brag to their friends about it, contributes greatly to this. In fact, I'm sure that many women have lied to their friends about me "trying to get with them" just to score status points with other females, of course, none of them caring, or even thinking, about the damage this has done to my reputation.

On top of all this, other men instinctively resent me. I'll put it this way...no guy has ever asked me to be their wing man, so I'm always the guy that shows up at the bar by himself and no one talks to. I stopped going to the bars/parties/etc. a long time ago.

Men AND women always assume I'm stupid, or, at best, don't care how smart I am, which sucks, because I have a lot to say.

I've had plenty of very satisfying sexual experiences with women, but the problem is I'd like to get married and all the "good girls" people tell me to go for are, first off, married, but also, assume I'm the definition of the kind of guy they SHOULDN'T be with because "I'm not going to be with a guy just because he's sexy", completely ignoring the fact that I'm extremely intelligent, creative, interesting, hardworking, etc. and that I've proved all this my entire life.

I can relate. All that said, I stopped using dating sites because I always got the response "How dare you use a male models photos to try to get with girls!!!!" On sites where I could verify my photos I'd hardly get any conversations because "If you're so good looking why are you on a dating site?" even though they're obviously also on there, but...female "logic"...I guess...