It took him about a year of subtly pushing me in that direction. But I'm a pretty receptive person and I know I'm no genius but I do respect intelegence alot. I have reason to believe my boyfriend is an actual intelectual genuis so I always thought he was very logical and smart. So when he started saying stuff that sounded racist and sexist I really had to look into it myself to see why he would think that way since this was clearly not an emotionally driven ploy. Good luck finding a chick who's receptive to the red pill. I was actively seeking the red pill before I knew what it was I was looking for. I've always tried to learn and grow and listen to people when they correct me (for the most part) but it seems like alot of woman are not interested in fixing what's wrong with themselves