Ask first is my vote. Depending on what you would do should he say no.
Ask first is my vote. Depending on what you would do should he say no.
I'd still go ahead and marry her if he said no. Which he won't but still. I'll ask before, just for reasons of respect.
I'd still go ahead and marry her if he said no. Which he won't but still. I'll ask before, just for reasons of respect.
Then it really doesn’t matter if you buy the ring before or after, if you choose after and he knows he may see it as a sign of respect.
Then it really doesn’t matter if you buy the ring before or after, if you choose after and he knows he may see it as a sign of respect.
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