I think "we" are doing it wrong anyway See this https://image.slidesharecdn.com/modernfamilyexternaldeck-120730150919-phpapp01/95/marketing-to-the-modern-family-the-findings-1-728.jpg They are all doing it wrong All but 1 ethnic group Faggots playing doll in the middle are the obvious, evidently (the MIDDLE, as if that was supposed to be "front and center", the main model/reference ) ... Bottom right is right That's how it's done traditionally IMO, something lost to most now It's the grand parents handling the kids, while the parents bring back money home for all That's your pension right there Like in rugby you pass the "gilbert" to the back Now it requires living parents of course But that's just my opinion