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My world is crumbling

I got engaged to my fianceé in April. Shortly after, we found out she was pregnant. This has been a source of great joy for me and both of our families. It was to her also. Our lives have become centered around the baby, who is due March 2nd. Tomorrow we are moving out of our individual one bedroom apartments to move into a large two bedroom house. She is not going to work anymore after this and I’ve worked my ass off, having only four days off in four months to try and save more money in preparation. We never had any problems before, we were happy and excited for the future. That is all changing very rapidly. She has started insulting me, all the time. I’m working actual 80 hour weeks and doing my best to give her everything, and I’m mocked for being tired. She has become so cruel towards me. I smile and tell her she needs to take it easy. She says things so degrading and demeaning I’d hit her if she wasn’t pregnant and this has become the norm. I keep justifying it by telling myself she is pregnant and hormonal, but I can’t help but feel that this is something else entirely. Now the night before we are moving she’s telling me she wants no life with me, that she’s leaving as soon as her dad finds her a new place to move, calling me pathetic, how the child will never know me. That’s only a snapshot. She will say the worst things she can conjure up . Mind you I’ve done absolutely nothing wrong. I started myown carpentry business this year after working for someone else for fifteen years. I’m providing for her every way I can. I’m renting out a distillery and throwing her a baby shower, hired a planner and having it catered for all her friends and family. I may be biased but any one else would be very happy right now and yet I am getting nothing but vitriol. It’s all being stolen from me. Even if she stays out of necessity I can’t live like this. Everything seems bleak and my options all seem drastic. I can’t think clear enough about this from within this nightmare. I don’t have any friends around here. What are your thoughts

I got engaged to my fianceé in April. Shortly after, we found out she was pregnant. This has been a source of great joy for me and both of our families. It was to her also. Our lives have become centered around the baby, who is due March 2nd. Tomorrow we are moving out of our individual one bedroom apartments to move into a large two bedroom house. She is not going to work anymore after this and I’ve worked my ass off, having only four days off in four months to try and save more money in preparation. We never had any problems before, we were happy and excited for the future. That is all changing very rapidly. She has started insulting me, all the time. I’m working actual 80 hour weeks and doing my best to give her everything, and I’m mocked for being tired. She has become so cruel towards me. I smile and tell her she needs to take it easy. She says things so degrading and demeaning I’d hit her if she wasn’t pregnant and this has become the norm. I keep justifying it by telling myself she is pregnant and hormonal, but I can’t help but feel that this is something else entirely. Now the night before we are moving she’s telling me she wants no life with me, that she’s leaving as soon as her dad finds her a new place to move, calling me pathetic, how the child will never know me. That’s only a snapshot. She will say the worst things she can conjure up . Mind you I’ve done absolutely nothing wrong. I started myown carpentry business this year after working for someone else for fifteen years. I’m providing for her every way I can. I’m renting out a distillery and throwing her a baby shower, hired a planner and having it catered for all her friends and family. I may be biased but any one else would be very happy right now and yet I am getting nothing but vitriol. It’s all being stolen from me. Even if she stays out of necessity I can’t live like this. Everything seems bleak and my options all seem drastic. I can’t think clear enough about this from within this nightmare. I don’t have any friends around here. What are your thoughts

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[–] • 16 pts (edited )

Pregnant bitches be crazy

Not too many women.

I'm assuming she knows it is NOT HIS GENETIC FETUS.

40% chance she is a classic "BORDERLINE PERSONALITY DISORDER" female.

5% OP is a classic "woe is me" fed CIA glownigger alt trying to gain empathy and entrenchment here.

BORDERLINE PERSONALITY is barely treatable, though one new pharmaceutical does exist.

https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/borderline-personality-disorder/symptoms-causes/syc-20370237

BORDERLINE PERSONALITY is no longer in the DSM-V as a AXIS-1 clinical disorder, but is in DSM-IV and she is acting like one.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Diagnostic_and_Statistical_Manual_of_Mental_Disorders

The DSM-4 hurt way too many people feelings, so many degenerate disorders were stricken in DSM-V, and "Borderline Personality" also demoted.

Anyways...

Pregnancy somehow triggered other dread and her acting out.

I would ABSOLUTELY NOT NOT NOT NOT SIGN ANY BIRTH DOCUMENTS OF ANY KIND until DNA test complete. DO NOT SIGN!

This might not even be your baby, possibly!

The biggest problem with borderline personality disorder women is that they can cause a lot of financial damage if they act out (light your car on fire, smash all your electronics). Some kill you in your sleep or carve you up with knives.

Probably SHE CHEATED sexually one or more times, and in her mind she fears being found out, that the kid might not be his, and is acting up prior.

Regarding any perceived diagnosis above...

THE ABOVE REMARKS ARE NOT A MEDICAL DIAGNOSIS BY ME, NO MATTER HOW I PRESENTED THE MATERIAL. My post is not meant to be prime evidence in a "Your Medical License is Being Revoked" Board of Medicine initiated letter. My words are merely entertainment regarding an anonymous healthy person I never physically met.

[–] • 6 pts

Notice the jew tag.... just sayin

[–] • 6 pts (edited )

I am the LEAST jewish person on this site! Check my entire post history and comment history!

Its all soaked in anti-Jew facts and Jew naming!

MISUSE of WRONG ICON ruins the "GRABBLER TAG".

85% of the time the tags are probably correct, but often the admin INCORRECTLY on BAD HUNCH puts on a tag.

I am a Huge Jew Namer , yet got a "Grabbler" tag!!!

I am provably one of this site's largest "Jew Namers" if you go back and read every comment, and every post in my account:

https://poal.co/u/nil/comments

Nine people asked me how a Jew Namer like me got the Grabbler.

I got the Jew Icon unfairly 2 hours after I uploaded a very popular post that listed one of the admins 3 websites last in a list, even though his website did not group videos by 'time and popularity' the way LiveLeak did.

A year ago, in my +70 upvoted breaking news tech post, I did not list "https://vid8.poal.co/" at the top of the list in this thread (it was not structured on time of video uploads and had commingled old content too).

5 people including "uvulectomy, @BurnInHelena, ItsOkToBeTsilent, Mental_Health_Checkup,BreadBug , and others that upvoted me" i assume got jew icons defending me, then I got a jew grabbler icon two hours after making that thread!

https://poal.co/s/technology/357688

See? +70 upvotes and a shitstorm started. Thats the real actual post that got so many a Grabbler icon that night! The thread keeps getting admin-edited, or disappearing bit by bit, but the essence is still there. Even the +70 votes now recently became +67!

Seriously, me listing https://vid8.poal.co last is the reason a Jew Namer like me got the "grabbler icon" and somehow lost 2 levels of power (could be algorithmic).

The admin changed his story 4 times as to why I got a Grabber icon 2 hours after that thread and all those people who got them that night :

  • He now claims it was arguing with PMYB2 and himself (I have no memory of arguments and he cited no examples)

  • Prior to that claim he claimed I put my posts in wrong areas, which is not true and he cited no examples other than one +82 News post of mine they shoahed to /USPolitics for spite, over a month before the Grabbler icon. A valid /News post +82 upvotes and shoahed from front page to non default page : https://poal.co/s/USPolitics/314161

  • Prior to that claim he claimed I gamed the system somehow, and he cited no examples, and not true ever, I never once downvoted anything in history on this site, nor ever upvoted any of my words utilizing alts.

In recent months on other sites I list both his video sites, as critical "mostly free speech" video sites. But my listing it last is still a sore spot with the admin, that strange incendiary thread where I quit this site for 4 months except for critical posts occasionally.

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I left for >4 months again, just came back a week ago, but forgave AOU and came back, because in late summer of 2022 I seriously predict this site will be the ONLY "Free Speech Hate Site" designed to withstand GPT-3 bots, due to banning techniques on bots, and it limits anonymous downvoting damage by Jew shills. It also wisely tags leftists, and tags people feigning stupidity, and has a globe icon to mark people feigning being Flat Earthers known as "KOOKIFIERS" a CIA tactic to dumb down a group : Refer to https://poal.co/s/Funny/442160/41f2692d-d85a-49cf-8ff1-765f16512735 (it explains the vital need for the Globe Icon on kookifiers) This site actually has about 5 other key design and admin policies that will ensure its the very last to succumb in summer of 2022 from attacks using GPT-3 AI gibberish bots. This site is likely to be stronger than Gab, or Parler, or ANY other site due to its design setup and coding, but those other sites have huge admin staffs and tens of millions in funding. They limit many forms of "Inciting hate to Jews" though so are less of a target.

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Anyway the current story of my Grabbler Icon THIS MONTH is that the main admin a now claims I argued with pmyb2 : read the thread

https://poal.co/s/AskPoal/434916/d4be8b1b-a221-4976-817b-105cb175f800#cmnts

Unlike most people with a Grabbler Icon, I prefer not having one, but having Grabbler Icon, will make me have to explain the situation as I had to to you now. A long waste of time to type, but required.

I too, would wonder why a Level 29 Jew Namer like me, would get a "Grabbler" icon.

Now you know, or can read that +70 thread yourself. Other threads were also later made referring to that thread.

I am provably one of the Biggest Jew Namers on this site!

USER TAGS ARE CRITICAL FEATURE though

They are needed to tag the paid enemies of this "free speech hate site". This site has countless paid leftist contractors on it meant to annoy and chase away educated White contributors.

Some pretend to be stupid on purpose, or pretend to be minors
Some pretend to be "Flat Earthers, and denier of most science" : GLOBE TAG (seems 85% correct so far)
Some pretend to be centrist or conservatives, but are ACTUALLY leftist disenchanters : NPC tag
Some are suspect paid leftists from ADL/SPLC/JIDF/ShareBlue : JEW GRABBLER tag
Some are pretending to be shit posters, gibberish posters, argument starters, chaos lords, but might all be paid leftist contractors : VARIOUS tags

I wish the Grabbler tag was applied to people who are 85% likely Jews or paid by Jews. It is obvious I am not a leftist nor a Jew. Perhaps, ironically, maybe I am that 15% error rate I keep speaking of.

Defending me here will get your good boy points stripped, and earn you a Jew Grabbler Icon too, so be careful in how you agree with this particular comment of mine.

TL/DR: Grabbler user tag icons are a CRITICAL feature, but must be used only on suspected paid Leftist Jews

[–] • 1 pt

I can confidently say I had never met anyone I knew to be a jew until I went to university.

[–] • 1 pt

For sure make sure it is your child. I'd bet she cheated.

[–] • 1 pt

BPD is what I was thinking but without background info who knows