Ok man, this is hard stuff. If it was just her hormones acting up she would be having moments where she realizes she's a cunt and would apologize. I think your girl is acting like that because she wants out. You should find an exit strategy too. Right now. Don't linger and weep. You'll have plenty of time later for that. Now you collect evidence of the abuse. You secure what you can financially. You open up to your family if you can. Think preservation. You gotta prep like a hurricane is coming. And it is coming. I'm sorry bro but your thing is broken. I don't know what caused it to be broken but I wouldn't be surprised if she had an affair going on or at least some more promising guy in the back of her cell phone. Take care and don't forget that the baby isn't even born yet and she gives you this shit. Imagine how hard it's going to be when it's born. She will destroy you with that. Go away, leave, hire a lawyer now.

She's shit testing you to see if you will stick around after the baby is born. She wants to know where your breaking point is because she feels insecure about her own future now. If you leave, then she will have you to blame for her own shortcomings as a mother. If you stay, then you are a pussy and you will again get the blame for her own failures. Either way this is about her own doubt and insecurity in becoming a mother. The reality of it hit her hard and she is looking for someone else to take the blame for her conflicted feelings because women have no agency for their own actions. This isn't about you. This is completely about her.

Pregnant bitches be crazy. Hold the line my friend.

Wow, sorry you are going through this!! I am a woman and think there is something wrong somewhere! Either she is very insecure or is thinking about or having an affair!! Hormones do change, but they go up and down, not mean all the time!! Pray, document, get witnesses also and think long and hard about staying with her! You do need to try and talk to her if you can, with an impartial party there also! Do you think there is someone else, since you work 80 hrs.? Get a DNA test to be safe. For the sake of the baby's well being, maybe you two shouldn't be together!! Better now, then when he/she is older and blames themself for the breakup!! God Bless You and I will pray for the best outcome for everyone!!

@Morbo is partially correct that this is a shit test. Your kid will do similar boundary tests to you as well. Look at it as a parenting test and a way to improve your disciplining skills. You and your wife are not the same. You have different needs. Try to be as stoic as possible. A simple "It's not appropriate for you to talk to me this way" in a clear but not yelling serious tone. Then just stare at her. Do your best to put on the expression that means what comes next is violence. You'll need to do the same thing with your kids as well. Never verbally threaten violence. What they imagine you'll do will be worse than what you can describe. Just learn to give them a look. I can get my kids to behave just from aggressively standing up and staring at them while being on the opposite side of a soccer field.

Watch out for the shit tests turning into sleep deprivation. You're already working a lot of hours. Bring a portable alarm of some sort (could just be a cell phone) and learn to sleep and hour or two in your car or whatever if she gets on you when you need to sleep.

There's a good chance this behavior is coming from somewhere. Figure out what shows she's watching and websites she's visiting. She also might have a friend who's sabotaging your relationship. Kill two birds with one stone by asking her if she's read any good parenting sites lately. Use it both as an excuse for conversation and a way to dig.

She definitely found someone else and is trying to instigate you to retaliate so she can use that against you.

Yeah you need to get that bitch out of your life. Unfortunately she's chosing child support over a stable home Life. Get the dna checked and don't sign any papers. Oh and the marriage or whatever is off.

1. Whats her background? Any abuse or abandonment issues as a kid? Are her parents together? Sounds almost like Borderline Personality Disorder aka BPD. Women with BPD tend to go off rails like that and you become the enemy. You can actually salvage a relationship with a BPD but it takes work, its not easy after they have flipped on you. The trick is to catch it early when they start switching and you have to grit your teeth a lot. But it can be done no matter what people say because of the abandonment issue.

2. Whats your relationship with her parents/siblings? Because honestly, regardless of anything, THAT is who I would go to. Win them over in this situation. If its just hormones which IS possible as some women go nuts with pregnancies. Either way you want them on your side because this will involve a child.

3. What are her friends like? Never underestimate the enabling of a friend. Women are capable of encouraging other women to burn up their lives out of jealous motives. But some friends are also good people and friends. But you need someone in her camp that you can talk to on the sly and find out if shes having an affair. Preferably someone who can keep their mouth shut on your behalf.

4. If shit goes completely sideways and she leaves whatever, say nothing but get a lawyer to preplan custody fight.. For this you want to document her behavior but do it without her finding out your recording her. In other words, yeah try to fix things but at same time cover your ass in case you cant fix things. Do you have access to her phone records or social media accounts? Have to pry very carefully here. Do not be stupid and wreckless when looking for stuff.

5. Ask neighbors you think are your friends if they have seen anyone coming or going or her coming and going and if so for how long has it been going on.

6. If things end you will have lawyer ready. File for paternity test. If its not her hormones or BPD, then its possible the child is not yours and shes acting like this because of that whether she even realizes it or not. If its your kid, better figure out the worst scenario you can live with.

7. Do NOT put your hands on her, at all, if she attacks you eat the blows and film it and keep that film away from her. Trust me on this. If you can hand video or witnesses to police/CPS/Judges that show her verbally and physically attacking you while you do nothing, you should win a favorable ruling.

8. Start hiding money, NOW. Cash is king. Keep as much cash as you can off books without exposing yourself to any audits. Then hide that shit and dont hide it somewhere stupid either. Women are snoops btw.

9. Keep calm. This is most important. If its over its over and you will be thankful later that it ended before you made it all legal. Its hard but when that moment comes even after trying to repair relationship that its over, let the pain go. Do be angry or depressed and go get laid as quickly as you can. Bang one of her friends, yes I am serious. If she has any friends you actually like and would date, do it. The worst thing you can do is become stalky bitter nutjob or a depressed alcoholic. You want her to not think she broke you but instead you are out banging chicks. Put Tinder on your phone and use condoms.

I have more but need more info.

Take audio clips of her abuse for later. Jot down quotes and dates of things she threatens/says to you.

Collect everything you can in case this leads to a legal battle down the line.

My thoughts are “this is probably a troll post”. If not a troll post then grow some balls and stick up for yourself. Her leaving may be a good thing for you. Don’t case pearls before swine.

As a woman who has been pregnant twice - those hormones really fuck you up. Make you angry at nothing, cry at nothing, etc... It could be that... but her behavior hints at something else. IDK, you seem like a great guy, a "keeper" as they say. Anyone who works that hard to put their family first and works themselves to near death for their happiness is a gift from God. Does she have any friends? Family support? She could be lonely... That can create problems because she has no outlet for her feelings (unfortunately, women have a lot of those). Hang in there til the baby comes friend, they usually change everything for the better.