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Inb4 "kill her/the guy/both" or "beat the shit out of her/the guy/both" - legal and realistic options only ITT PLOX.

Inb4 "kill her/the guy/both" or "beat the shit out of her/the guy/both" - legal and realistic options only ITT PLOX.

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[–] • 6 pts

Bring evidence to a lawyer so you can file an at-fault divorce. This should nullify her ability to take half your shit or claim alimony.

[–] • 0 pt

But what will it do about children?

[–] [deleted] • 0 pt

depends on their age. If they're small, work it out, go to counseling and be a father and wife a mother to your children. Stay together. Go to a program called Retrouvaille for couples counseling...make a real effort both of you to raise your children in a decent happy home. When they reach majority- you can gtfo.

[–] • 3 pts

Sorry to hear it... If you like life, move on and learn from it.

[–] • 2 pts

Either ignore and live with it, keep your existing life. Or Call her on it and live with or maybe have a big fight and who knows. Or Realize that things and people change, file paperwork, call up her mom and let her know she will be coming to stay awhile. Move on, work on yourself, hit the gym, take up learning things you always wanted to.

[–] • 2 pts (edited )

This is fiction, I'm not married and have no kids, just making up a case for the sake of the question.

Learn what? She's the one cheating, and with npt just one guy, but a multitude! Most of them were complete strangers to her!

It was four years of what I thought was a mutually blissful marriage down the drain in one night. I don't know how long she's been doing this, and can't even know if the children I was raising were really mine!

I married her because I think I got her pregnant in high school, so I married her because I loved her, and still do to a degree. She says shes sorry and that she loves me more than anything in the world, even her own life, but I'm having issues believing her.

She's telling me she's a sex addict and that she's been doing this because I'm working late so often, and too tired after I come home, porn and masturbation weren't doing it for her, so she got tempted into cheating, next thing she knew, she was hooking up with strangers online for sex, and far from normal sex too, by the looks of it, her libido was thoroughly jewed, she wanted to do the stuff she was seeing on those internet videos.

She was doing this while our kids were in school or at camp, during the lockdown she found other ways to sneak off. I caught her in one of her lies and looked into it I secret, then came home to find another man who I'd never seen before answering my door when I came home, and he told me everything.

[–] • 1 pt

Get paternity tests, file for divorce.

[–] • 0 pt

If kids are young then raise them together but tell her she's not your wife, separate the finances.

[–] • 0 pt (edited )

All relationships are designed by human nature to dissolve / fall a part if the couple doesn't have kids. Cheating is one of the ways it can naturally dissolve. It dissolved, you didn't have kids. You DEFINITELY !DEFINITELY! do not want to continue with this woman. It dissolved, because you didn't have kids. Get another wife. Get some practice in. Go out have some of a life doing cool ass exciting hobbies. CHOOSE who you want in the woman then go out and get her. Totally different world when you're now working and successful. Choose a woman who you would want raising your child and being half of your genes.

[–] • 1 pt

how do crimes of passions work again?

[–] • 1 pt

Make her wear a chastity belt Have all kids DNA tested Make her shoot the ones that aren't yours If you catch her with a black guy then this marks the beginning of the day of the rope, at least for you. I suspect you wouldn't be able to contain the rage and realizing that you're going in prison, might as well go on a rampage.

[–] • 1 pt

At-fault divorce, take the kids.

[–] • 0 pt

damn, that sucks. Sorry to hear. If you don't have kids you can play like everything is normal while making your escape plan: apartment, clear the bank accounts, get a new phone, maybe a new job. When your ready to execute and leave, send the divorce papers via courier and block her on everything. Go ghost.

[–] • 0 pt (edited )

My Brother and his wife just ended up having a cheating fest on each other. I think my brother won like 40 or more to 10? They're back together now, raising their kid and having another. Pretty f'ing happy as far as I know. Exactly what you do depends on you, but you have a lot of options, especially depending on your situation.

Your kids matter A LOT more than you do. But if ie - Your wife was beyond cruel and isn't even allowing access to your kids anyways, undermining everything you do and convincing your kids to go against you and you deserve a loving family, well

If you don't have kids JFC I OUGHT TO PUNCH YOU IF YOU DON'T LEAVE

[–] [deleted] • 0 pt

Start with fucking her sister, mom, and best friend and get back to me for the next step.

[–] [deleted] • 0 pt

Gather damning video/voice/text evidence. Do not show your cards to anyone, not your friends, kids, relatives, or coworkers. Not even a hint, people have big mouths. Hire divorce lawyer. Only reveal your knowledge of her infidelity to her after your lawyer tells you it is time.

After you've won your divorce case, you may now plot your revenge. But remember, you'll automatically be suspect #1... so best to just let it go.