As said, it was usually two or three fucks, then on to the next gal. Experience proved that more than three times and she starts putting on pressure for fidelity, exclusivity, etc., then comes nagging for commitment/marriage. The married cougar I did a sorta fuckbuddy 'relationship' with for about six months. Hubby was straying, and she wanted someone he could not intimidate to invade his territory, and bring him back under her control. I was the object of jealousy, to make him want to stay married....and probably some revenge for him screwing around with young stuff. That was as close to any sort of relationship I ever got, or wanted to get. The more you come to know women, the more you realize you don't want to know them too well, or that's how it was with me. Too much manipulation, gamesmanship, shit-testing, etc., and bitches are very very cunning at it. Total airhead retards in most everything else, but each one has a Ph. D in Psyops.