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I have to work and I have 3 kids. I miss him everyday. I was a housewife when he was alive. I didn't have friends because I don't like people, just him. I liked our life a lot. Now I'm just alive, and my kids will grow up and move out and I'll be alone forever. Im not going to kill myself but want to everyday. I just want to be with him. I want the pain to end. But I can't because of the kids. How am I supposed to deal with this.

I have to work and I have 3 kids. I miss him everyday. I was a housewife when he was alive. I didn't have friends because I don't like people, just him. I liked our life a lot. Now I'm just alive, and my kids will grow up and move out and I'll be alone forever. Im not going to kill myself but want to everyday. I just want to be with him. I want the pain to end. But I can't because of the kids. How am I supposed to deal with this.

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[–] [deleted] • 25 pts

Turn to God. I've been an atheist for most of my adult life. As I get older I realise I was wrong. Our human minds need God. You need God. I don't like people either but at church it's different. It's not the same as dealing with people at work or the store.

Maybe you already go to church... I've prayed for 2 people in my life so far, I'll pray for you tonight, for strength, for peace and for your kids.

[–] • 5 pts

Thanks

[–] • 1 pt (edited )

Did your late husband have a brother?

If yes, he is technically responsible for taking you and your children in and caring for you. Heck, if we followed the old ways he was charged with marrying you and adopting your kids. But that was before muh modernism and muh feminism.

Join a church of based people (not Joel Olesteen faggotry), pray to God for assistance. You may find a decent man there. Good luck, prayers for you as well today.

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Out of curiosity, what changed your mind?

[–] [deleted] • 9 pts

I think it was a combination of many things happening in my life. I'll list what comes to mind.

  • Voat.co
  • Having children
  • Heritage
  • Culture
  • Donald Trump
  • pro-life movement
  • trans movement
  • red and black pills...

When Cannon Hinnant was shot it was the end of my atheism. For the first time in my life I prayed; for Cannon and his father.

My wife agreed, we should stop calling ourselfs atheist and join a church. We had gone several times with close friends, but when we decided to join lockdowns happened.

I hope OP got something out of her post. We are honestly a great group of people. Stick together. Stick with God.

[–] • 4 pts

Voat helped make you Christian? I know a lot of the users were Christian but it didn’t seem to come up much, and there was no active subverse about Christianity. Most of the Christians I know in real life would be horrified if they read some of the Voat posts

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When Cannon Hinnant was shot it was the end of my atheism. For the first time in my life I prayed; for Cannon and his father.

If you pray, pray for justice.

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"Needing" god and your username are perfectly aligned.

[–] [deleted] • 1 pt

My user name is a reference to a William Shakespeare quote about being humble to ones intelligence.

A fool thinks himself to be wise, but a wise man knows himself to be a fool.

[–] • 0 pt

The very idea of someone who believes in fairy tales to justify not having to create their own morals by deciding right from wrong on their own, using a parable about wisdom, had me laughing for a good 10 minutes.

Thanks. My morning needed that.